Sunday, August 20, 2023

The two key commandments in one story

I just listened to a sermon by the late Timothy Keller on the story of the rich man in Mark 10:17-31. I’ve added the link here if you’re keen to hear it. I recommend it.


Maybe you’ve heard these points elsewhere before, but I find these little insights and nuggets of truth very helpful and Keller has a wonderfully engaging style of preaching that hits hard and hits home. It’s hard in the sense that he gets to the heart of the matter, no tiptoeing around the issue. And he doesn’t let you rationalise it away and you are convicted by it. Here’s the description of this episode:

“Jesus said an awful lot of hard things. And in the story of the rich young ruler, Jesus says two hard things: he says our understanding of riches and our understanding of moral goodness are wrong.
The rich young ruler is not only rich, but he’s also a man of exquisite moral character. Yet, Jesus sends him away. Jesus turns our common notions about wealth and goodness on top of their heads and he gives us new ones—ones that are explosively in contradiction with what the world thinks, but ones that, if we obey them, have the power of God exploding in our midst.
Let’s look at these two principles. Jesus tells us 1) something new about wealth and 2) something new about moral goodness."

Here's a summary of the key points, or at least my take on them.

Jesus rams home the point about how difficult it is for us to give up what we love in this life to follow him, and at the same time, emphasizes the hollowness of a 'moral life' without foundation. This young ruler, would be someone held in high regard in any era. He is successful and he is a 'good' man, a poster child for the ages. But Jesus uses this opportunity to say that wealth and moral goodness can be obstacles. The young man of upright character, feels that there is something missing. He has obeyed all the rules, the laws, the commandments and yet calls out to Jesus for help. Somehow he knew that that wasn't enough, that he could not be good enough. To his credit, it is a self-awareness that many do not possess. Most people (myself included at one time) probably think that being a 'good person' should be enough.

There are parallels between this episode and our modern world in which atheists talks about universal human rights, about non-religious moral goodness and increasingly we see that without a firm foundation in faith, they find that they have painted themselves into a corner. Nothing is rooted, everything is subjective. They say you can be whatever gender or sexual orientation you choose. And yet in defining it as such, nothing you choose has value or significance, but is simply a thought or preference. Feelings are everything. If that is true then there is no moral compass anyway because nothing can be wrong.

I had a conversation with someone recently about homosexuality and this person asked if I had ever asked a gay friend about their orientation. I said I had not because I think it is fraught with minefields. But I did say that while I believed that many of them truly believe they were 'made' differently, it is interesting if this was something that could be attributed to genetics (as many make the case for), or simply feelings or preference. Maybe they are truly different, and here I think it was useful to hear another argument (in a subsequent podcast by Keller's church) where the speaker (not Keller) said she also was attracted to women but chose not to follow her feelings.

And there is something to this argument. Sin is always tempting us - to lie, to cheat and sometimes even worse things, but we have free will to refuse, to reject sin and it is the same with sexual orientation. This is a useful point to make without getting into destructive debates and arguments about morality. It is simply what God has commanded, and we make this point carefully without saying that we are better people for following his commandments. We are not better, we are also sinners and are saved by grace. Jesus reminds us of this as well - the young man asks what else he has to 'do'. Jesus asks him why he called Jesus good and then drives home the point that no one is good except God.

One of the best parts of the sermon was when Keller points out something that I had overlooked before - hence the importance of always studying the Bible and reading carefully. Jesus said this young man's refusal to surrender everything was the stumbling block. The young man was told there was one thing he "lacked" - after all, he had done everything else required under the law. He was told to sell off everything he owned and give the proceeds to the poor. And to then follow Jesus.

The insight for me was that Keller points out that in this simple set of instructions, Jesus has essentially summarised his two main commandments. Love God, and love your neighbour. You see, I had always remembered only part of the story - where the young man is told to sell everything he owns and follow Jesus. But I had glossed over the part about giving to the poor, which is an important part of the instruction. How often do we hesitate to help anyone because we wonder what it would cost us? What else are we attached to that prevent us from really 'following' Jesus?

The last insight was something that only just caught my eye. Why did Jesus say it was something the young man 'lacked'? What was this thing he lacked?

Humility? The willingness to surrender everything?

I think it is actually faith. The young man had become successful through his own efforts - at least in his own mind. So his question is about what more can he do. Jesus tells him there is nothing more he can do (at least in the manner the young man is thinking of), and instead he is to give up the things that he was most attached to. And that requires faith.











Wednesday, August 16, 2023

When and how

National Day has come and gone, and I missed home when I watched the parade.

This year I followed the Love, Singapore series that led up to National Day and it was often really inspiring. I saw that young lady who is serving in East Timor and she was so full of passion to save souls. I often hesitate to share my faith because I worry about how people will react, and if I were brutally honest with myself, I worry about looking foolish. About how the other party will look at me, and judge me.

But I should not worry about the judgement of people, and instead I should worry about His judgement.

1 Corinthians 4:3-4  “I care very little if I am judged by you or by any human court; indeed, I do not even judge myself. My conscience is clear, but that does not make me innocent. It is the Lord who judges me.”

We are commanded to share our faith and it is really timely that Wesley has chosen to start the next Bible reading drive stage with 1 Corinthians.

1 Corinthians 1:5-8 "For in him you have been enriched in every way - with all kinds of speech and with all knowledge - God thus confirming our testimony about Christ among you. Therefore you do not lack any spiritual gift as you eagerly wait for our Lord Jesus Christ to be revealed. He will also keep you firm to the end, so that you will be blameless on the day of our Lord Jesus Christ." 

We will be blameless because of His grace, because of the spiritual gifts bestowed on us. Gifts we have to put to good use (more on this later). Gifts of speech and knowledge. I think this is not to be confused with oratory and intellect because then it would only apply to a select few.  But all of us are called to witness. Logically it should mean that at the moment when we have the opportunity to share our testimony with the person in front of us, that we will be or have been, equipped with what is necessary for that time. But this raises another question.

How do we decide when is the right time to share? (And how do we share? Perhaps a topic for another day) Do we hear a voice? Not that I don't think God will speak to us personally - but I think it is right to be sceptical in this day and age. I don't have answers but if someone said or did something controversial because he said God spoke to him, I would be wary.

How will we know when and how to share? Are we doing so out of love?  And I think that is the key - Love is the key spiritual gift. Love of our fellow man. Because without that love, we are just mechanically carrying out the commandment, like "clanging cymbals" (1 Corinthians 13:1) I think love is the greatest spiritual gift because it guides us to do the right thing, at the right moment, in the right way. And I believe that applies to spreading the gospel.

More importantly, the person receiving the message will feel the love from you first, even if they don't agree with the message... yet. They will see the spirit working in you. They will appreciate that you try to share the message in a kind and considerate manner, even though they may think you are wasting your time. They will appreciate that you continue to walk with them even though they reject your message at first. Because you love them for who they are, not just because they agree with your faith.

And more importantly, even after they agree with you and accept Christ as savior, do you continue to walk with them? Or is it a case of "job done" and you move on? That's not love, that's bean counting. That's partly how my walk with Christ at first stalled, because no one cared enough to walk with me.

On a related note, and which is the real reason why I wrote this, prompted by the Love, Singapore series - what do you feel about that this exhortation in the series that Singapore has been specially called to go on this great mission?

All believers are called to share the Gospel so it is not a question of only the chosen, or the specially blessed to take on this duty. But it was something that nagged at me when I watched some of the daily messages in the Love Singapore series. There were more than a few references to Billy Graham who came to Singapore in the 80s(?) and proclaimed Singapore to be the Antioch of the East.

Maybe it is just unintended hyperbole, and makes for a nice soundbite. Even if it was, it certainly does not detract from the message to go out and spread the gospel.  But we should be wary and guard against hubris and feel that we are specially chosen. Yes we have been blessed as a country in many ways, but it does not take a lot for pride to get in the way. The reason it bugged me was because we have seen before what it can do. I am sure that throughout history there are many countries which also felt they were especially blessed - and here the excesses of the American right-wing evangelists come to mind easily. Prosperity gospel preachers, the notion that America is God's chosen, Trump is God's anointed etc. 

That last point about Trump is something I have written about before. About how politics has poisoned everything including the church. I just shared an article I read this morning about how Christians need to navigate the minefields everywhere in today's world.

What happened to Antioch?

1 Corinthians 1:31: "Let the one who boasts boast in the Lord".